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How To Win "The Numbers Game"

A time-test and proven way to immediately increase you chances of success with women, is to simply play the numbers game.

I'm going to outline your strategy in a moment, but first be clear that you will need 3 things to play the numbers game:

1. You will need to stop making excuses for approaching women:

That's right, you're going to have to "suck it up" or "man up" or whatever metaphor works for you and walk up to women and open your mouth.

You're not just going to open your mouth however, you're going to speak words and sentences to her when you do. More on that shortly.

2. You will need to give up the idea of "pick up lines":

Forget about cheesy one-liners supposedly designed to get her to swoon over you.

That's not the way it works, and if pick up lines every do work, it's only if they're funny or provocative, but even then it's not likely. She's going to see through that in a New York minute.

3. You will need to see "rejection" as one step closer to success:

Salespeople are taught how to deal with constant rejection by seeing each "no" as one step closer to getting a "yes".

Take a tip from them and see each woman that turns you down as getting you one step closer to a woman that will accept your advances.

Now let's get into your strategy so you can play the numbers game and win:

At its heart, the numbers game is very simple: you just approach as many woman as you can possibly approach.

To do this most effectively, you should go out to public places where you're sure to have lots of women to approach. Think malls, grocery stores, coffee shops and bookstores. If you need more ideas, be sure to get my free report "The 69 Best Places To Meet Women".

Now, just look for attractive women you'd like to meet, suck it up, and start asking for phone numbers.

I know, I know: you want a script. As I say in my book "Super Confidence With Women", if you're wondering what to say, you're actually lacking in confidence. Scripts and opening lines are like a security blanket - what, are you a boy or are you a man? You should use the techniques I teach you in my book so you can get over your insecurity once and for all.

But if you must have a "line" or some idea of what to say, just keep it simple, stupid: say, "Hi, how about you give me your phone number so we can meet for coffee sometime?"

It's not rocket science:

Forget what the "pick up artists" and "seduction science" people say. Just walk up, ask for her phone number, you'll either get it or you won't, and you just move on.

Dude: it's nothing but a numbers game. Get used to it. Now get out there and get some phone numbers.

A proven roadmap to approaching women with confidence: