NLP Seduction Techniques

NLP Seduction Techniques are particularly effective because

NLP is in reality nothing more than artful use of communication.

In NLP, we say "the map is not the territory" because people don't "live in reality" per se, but rather, people operate in the world based on internal representations - just a fancy way of lumping together our memories, attitudes, and beliefs into a single category.

That means using NLP seduction techniques is basically just taking that fact and leveraging that to our advantage when we're interacting with a girl we want.

Here are a few basic and easy-to-learn NLP Seduction Techniques you should know and use:

NLP Seduction Technique #1:

In NLP, we call a conditioned response an "anchor".

An anchor is when we have a specific feeling as a result of a specific external stimuli - such as a feeling of patriotism when hearing your country's national anthem, for example.

It's easy to create the anchors that help with your NLP seduction techniques, don't overcomplicate this, all you have to do is get here into the state you want her to be in, then automatically that state will be linked to you.

Whenever she sees you or even thinks about you, those states you've created will be recalled by her.

Now, how do you get her into those states?

Here's how:

NLP Seduction Technique #2:

If you complain about things whenever you're around her, she's going to connect that negative state of mind to you.

Bad idea.

Instead, you want to connect positive states to you - states like humor, connectivity, attraction, desire, or even sexual attraction.

In NLP, we have techniques like "quotes" and "metaphor" - fancy ways of just telling stories and saying things that others have said.

Quotes is a great technique because you can say something directly to her face, but frame is as something you heard someone else said - and this is best used in conjunction with telling stories.

Any story will do, as long as it leads her to be in the states of mind you want her to be in.

You can talk about movie plots or TV shows you've seen.

Romantic comedies are perfect for this since if she's seen a romantic comedy like When Harry Met Sally or Sleepless In Seattle or whatever, she will already have states of mind attached to those movies, and you can use that to your advantage.

Talking about movies is very natural, and can also lead to covert hypnosis, our next topic:

NLP Seduction Technique #3:

Covert hypnosis is not rocket science, you just want her attention directed very strongly inside - that is, into her own internal experience.

Getting her involved heavily in a story you're telling is an easy way to induce covert states of hypnosis, and lead her to the states you want her to be in.

Over coffee or lunch this is very easily achieved; start out talking about a movie or TV show you saw, and use your voice tones and facial expressions to deepen her involvement in your story.

Defocus your eyes at the same time, this will cause her to respond by defocusing her eyes too, helping to deepen her "eyes open' state of hypnosis.

Talk in low tones causing her to lean in to listen more closely. Building up states of interest, attraction and desire should be your main focus.

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